by: Oladokun Omowunmi
Nobody likes and wants to be around a tattler, a tale bearer nor a talkative person.
Being a talkative person(not an insult or criticism)—or “talkative”—means you enjoy communicating, love striking up conversations, and feel comfortable expressing thoughts out loud.
Gentleness is a virtue, rare to come by. A person who talks too much ain’t gentle. Gentleness is divided into two form : not a talk active nor a violent/ angry person.
A gentle person is a matured person. They reserve there comment, they let others talk too, they prefer to listen than to talk (active listening), they spend more time thinking, meditating than talking.
However, gentleness should never be seen as a weakness. I say what matters/point out what matters, go straight to the point and leave the rest rather than having to engage in two hours baseless talk.
In conclusion, gentleness is wisdom in practice. All men are work in progress and it is important that we learn even as we grow up in life.
