Psychology

Sunday, 10 March 2013 20:26

The Idealistic Personality

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This paper delineates the psychological structure and behavior pattern of the idealistic personality. This is a person who in childhood, due to the exigencies of his inherited biological issues, used his mind to invent an idealized self; a self he believes is an ideal alternative to his problematic body and experiences obsessive-compulsive desire to become that ideal self. In every situation he finds himself in he seeks what is ideal and tries to live up to the ideal. He does this as if he is a slave to the ideal self-construct and in the processes loses the ability to seek…
Abstract: This paper points out that there is a part of us, spirit that chose to live in body and chooses what we experience while in body. It says that we are not victims of nature and other persons, as science tells us that we are. It says that we choose what happens to us to experience so as to make us seem separated from each other and from the whole, aka God. Because we chose separation we can also choose to return to the awareness of union. We are always in unified state while dreaming that we are separated…
This paper says that looking at the empirical world, matter, space and time seem to determine what the individual thinks and does. On the other hand, there are suggestive evidence that mind exists apart from the human body. The paper says that this leaves us with two approaches to psychology, scientific psychology that studies how body affects mind and spiritual psychology that shows how mind affects body. It says that the two approaches do not mix, for their parameters are different. The paper concludes that to help people we have to employ both scientific and spiritual psychotherapies. Scientific And Spiritual…
Sunday, 21 October 2012 05:10

Love The Ego Then Improve It

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This paper points out that everywhere human beings, in trying to improve themselves, abuse themselves. They see their ego selves (the self in bodies) as bad and want to be selves that they think are better. Perfect, ideal selves can only exist outside bodies, for bodies set limits on how perfect the human self can become. The paper says that people must learn to treat their egos with respect and not always malign them. All the alignment of this world would not change the ego and make people better selves. As long as people live in bodies they are egos…
Friday, 12 October 2012 10:23

Black Holes, Nothingness And Humanity

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This essay extrapolates from the physics of star death to speculate on what it means to be human being. It suggests that existentialists' tendency to see people as nothing more than matter may not be all there are to people, that people may, in fact, be something more than the eyes see. Black Holes, Nothingness And Humanity Ozodi Thomas Osuji The current hypothesis is that when medium sized stars, such as our sun, exhaust their hydrogen fuel they begin to fuse elements beyond helium until they get to iron and thereafter throw off their outer parts and their core implodes…
This essay points out the social utility of human tendency to guilt feeling. Those who feel guilt from anticipating harming other people are likely not to harm people. Therefore, it is useful if people feel guilty. On the other hand, the human tendency to guilt feeling is exploited by the amoral rulers of this world; they use it to control the people. Balancing guilt feeling and no guilt feeling would seem to be the right thing to do? Ego Surivival And Social Control Of Guilt Feelers Ozodi Thomas Osuji To feel guilty, sinful and remorseful one must feel as if…
Wednesday, 26 September 2012 19:47

Scientific Spirituality and Spiritual Psychotherapy

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Absence of love is the cause of all mental disorders; Presence of love is the cure for all mental disorders; Separation from union, love is the cause of all mental disorders; Return to union, love is the cure for all mental disorders; Love returns us to union; love heals all mental disorders; All healers are lovers. Center for Scientific Spirituality, CSS Anchorage, Alaska (907) 440-4317 This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. This paper says that we must do in the world of spirituality and religion what we do in the world of the physical sciences; that is, use the scientific method to examine what those…
This essay points out that fear alerts animals, human beings included to possible danger to their lives and force them to do what protects their lives in bodies. Without fear people will not survive the dangers that exist everywhere in their environment. If people were not fearful they would not be able to take actions to protect themselves and would die out. If people exist without fear it has to be in a different form, perhaps in a non-material form. Religions say that at root people are formless spirit; perhaps, in that mode of existence people would not have fear.…
(Who is responsible for the killing of folks by James Eagen Holmes?) The Dangers Of Reducing All Human Behavior To Biological Causation Ozodi Osuji, PhD It is reported that James Eagen Holmes, the graduate student who murdered twelve people and wounded over 59 others at an Aurora, Colorado Movie theater was studying neuroscience and that he recently made a presentation on the Biological Basis of Psychiatric and Neurological disorders to a class he was taking. Psychologists and psychiatrists are perceived by their colleagues in the physical sciences as not true scientists. Because of this disrespect they are struggling mightily hard…
I am the person who exists, breathes, acts and responds when no one is watching or when there is someone in my presence who I feel cannot harm me. Whether the person is too small, too young, an outcast, or someone from whom I have taken power, how I comport myself around them is actually the real me. When I walk out of church and people have complimented my speaking or my shouting or my dance of praise and I start to hurriedly run to my car in order to avoid some poor soul who is on the busline. I…
In his Public Broadcasting Corporation PBS programming show "Faces of America," Professor Henry Louis Gates Jr. normally presents the triumphs and resiliencies of our genealogical ancestors. However, another side of that same coin that is much less discussed is that of the introspective legacy of mental health disorders. The transitions from old nations to new nations are accompanied by other demanding stressors such as the need to survive, integrate, assimilate, and/or acculturate. These demands are more strident when one contextualizes the scenarios by which some of our forefathers arrived in the United States and the manmade and environmental harshness that…
http://www.lavondastaples.com/2012/06/friday-affirmation-affirming-power-of.html Do what you want. Say what you will. It won't matter because I'm coming. I will arrive. I am a force of nature. Sometimes destructive and sometimes bringing much needed relief. Just as the rain eases the pressure of the clouds and helps to feed billions, I have something to offer and I don't even know or understand how it came to reside within me. I am a force of nature struggling to find my own release. Like the earthquake causing tectonic plates to slide and adjust. Like the river bursting over the man-made obstacles. Damn! Worry. Because I'm…
This essay delineates the nature of mental health; it says that to be mentally healthy is to accept who one knows one’s self to be in fact, not who one wants to become. It says that people often reject their real selves and seek becoming idealized others. It says that ideals are generally derived from misconception of what extant society value and from desire to escape from problematic biological constitutions. Whatever is the origin of self-rejection, the individual must accept who he is without reference to what other people would accept? Self Acceptance Is The Natural State Of Human Beings;…
Fact: in our brains, thinking is done through electrons (which are packets of light energy). Thoughts and ideas and feelings are coded into electrons (inside the atoms in our brains) and subsequently circulate in our brains and bodies. Some of them eventually leave our bodies as parts of the air we breathe out or that leaves our bodies through our skins. Our thoughts are coded in electrons, light and leave our bodies; they interact with the electrons, light and other elements around us and affect them and are affected by them. This way our thoughts and feelings coded in electrons…
Some children are born in bodies that are prone to inordinate pain (due to some inherited medical disorder in all the cells in their bodies). They feel pained and do not want to be pained. They want to escape from this extraordinary pain. They cannot do so realistically so they try to do so mentally. They use their imagination to construct alternative selves that are pain free, ideal, powerful and superior self. In clothes and shoes such children’s bodies feel pained and constricted and cry out to be released from those constricting and pain making contraptions of so-called civilization. The…
Friday, 01 June 2012 13:09

Psychology Is Secondary To Biology

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There are biological issues that lead the individual to think in a manner that is problematic, a manner judged to be disordered. Physical pain, for example, could make a person to reject his body and desire an idealized body and self. The desire for idealized self becomes a secondary psychological process that is problematic since no person can ever become ideal and perfect. Moreover, pursuit of the ideal perfect self leads to fear of not attaining it hence anxiety disorder. Psychiatry focuses on the individual’s problematic thinking and ignores the underlying biological causation of it. And when psychiatry talks about…
Upon birth on earth, into the human body something in the individual feels like he is diminished; he feels existential nothingness; he feels inferior, unimportant, worthless and insignificant. He does not like these feelings of inferiority and valuelessness. The same something in him that made him feel insignificant in body now makes him desire its opposite, significance. All human beings feel insignificant and pursue significance. In normal persons the desire for significance is generally masked and hidden in the unconscious mind. In neurotics minds the feeling of insignificance is in the conscious mind. Simply put, the human child feels like…
Monday, 28 May 2012 16:39

Fate

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'Hypothetically, if the only choice you've got is to do the wrong thing, then it's not really the *wrong* thing, is it? It's more like fate.' 'Vlad, it's never that easy.' 'Of course, we agree to disagree.' No matter, what choices you make what things you do and what rewards you want, everything is written, decided and destined to happen. This is what I understand of fate. Although I don't personally believe in it (or maybe I do sometimes), fate is really an important part of our lives. It affects how people think, see and perceive situations. I guess luck…
Living From Love Center According to A course in miracles, in eternity (aka heaven) we are always love and know only love; we live from love. But to live from love we must not pursue specialness, differences and inequality. We opted to seek differences and inequality, in a word, we seek specialness hence seems to have separated from the union of God and his son. Actually, separation is impossible; we are still in God, for as ideas in the mind of God we cannot leave our source; but while in God we seem to have gone to sleep and in…
The universe is wiser than the individual. It gives to us what we need but not what necessarily we consciously think that we need. Consider. When I was first exposed to African and Nigerian Internet forums and began reading what folks write initially I was ashamed of what I read and wanted to get off the forums. Somehow I kept coming back to them. Later, I wished that some of the people on the forum writing rubbish would go away. They seemed so totally stupid that I did not want anything to do with them. Consider Chukwuma. He writes like…
This paper says that our original state in formless unified spirit is love; it says that we separated from unified spirit to experience separated ego selves housed in bodies. Each person has a separated ego self-housed in body, a self that is at a different level of evolution through space and time. It says that we relate to each other from ego point of view, which is pragmatic. It says that such relationship although called love is really mutual ego use. The goal of the paper is to enable people to turn to love and begin the journey back to…
This essay tried to understand the psychology of ancient prophets. It says that those were people who had a dogged inner compulsion to state the truth as they saw it, often to the harm of their physical being. It says that those people had nothing to gain from stating the truth yet they had a compulsion to state the truth. The average person is pragmatic and does what enables him survive and cannot understand why prophets do what they do and call them fools and or mad men. Now I Understand The Psychology Of The Prophets Of God (The Psychology…
Thursday, 03 May 2012 13:02

Losing Hope: Depression is a satanic trick

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Introduction My days are past, My purposes are broken off, Even the thoughts of my heart. Where then is my hope? As for my hope, who can see it? (Job 17:11, 15) The character - Job is the biblical standard for despair and unfairness. Therefore, when we get to that stage that we begin to wonder why we are left alone sometimes at night with no one to talk to about our inner feelings, or we get to that manic stage of being afraid to be alone, or when are thoughts processes cannot take us out gloom and doom psychology,…
This essay pointed out that we have one problem and one problem only (the others are mere details), our belief that we have separated selves. We constructed separated selves that are so powerful that they replace the self that God created us as, Christ, his holy son who is one with him and all his brothers. We are pursuing big selves, and as long as we do so we are mentally ill. When we jettison the big self and embrace the humble self, the real son of God who acknowledges that his father created him and asks his father to…
Easter Message from Ozodi Osuji Easter means the death of Jesus the man and the resurrection of a new self in what was called Jesus, the Christ self. Metaphorically, this means the death of the human separated self-concept, the ego and the resurrection of the Christ, unified self in us. Each of us upon birth on earth constructs a separated ego self-concept housed in body and defends it with food, medications, clothes and shelter, if necessary at the expense of other persons. At some point we realize that the ego self is not our true self. Our real self is…