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Keep Homosexuality Out Of Africa

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This brief essay is written in response to Dr. Ola Kassim and other Diaspora Nigerians railing against the Nigerian Legislature passing a Bill against homosexuality. The paper agrees with the National Assembly’s proposed Legislation. If on account of what the legislature did the West wants to stop giving Nigeria foreign aid so be it; Nigeria does not need their aid if it is used to blackmail Nigerians into doing what they find horrible. Being open minded does not mean allowing ones brain to fall out!

KEEP HOMOSEXUALITY OUT OF AFRICA

by Ozodiobi Osuji

 “Homophobia is a neurotic disorder with worldwide prevalence --- with the highest incidence in the least developed and poorest countries. It is characterized by an irrational fear and aversion to gays, lesbians and other non-heterosexual human beings. Some of the most vocal and virulent homophobes are in fact closet gays and lesbians.”   Ola Kassim, MD (NaijaPolitics, December, 2011)

       Dr. Ola Kassim, I wish that you kept your commentary to medical issues and left a subject you know nothing about to other people. Do not venture to employ the term neurotic until you have understood its origin and meaning.  Let me give you a quick lesson on the meaning of neurosis and its relationship with homosexuality.

       Sigmund Freud was the first psychoanalyst to employ the term neurosis (he did so in his book, Neurosis and Everyday Living). He later refined the term in his later writings. (See his The Pleasure Principle; also see his “The Future of an Illusion” in which he employed the term neurosis to mean belief in what to him is a non-existent god.)

       To Freud, a neurotic is a person whose repression of certain instincts (Sex, Aggression and Thanatos) is not as successful as in so-called normal persons.

        As Feud sees it, we are born with the instinct of Id. The Id is an omnibus term for our natural tendency to sex and aggression. To Freud each child has polymorphous sexuality. That is, he is attracted to have sex with all people, his parents included (the boy child wants to have sex with is mother and the girl child wants to have sex with her father).

       Freud says that society prohibits sex with ones parents so the child is socialized to not even think about having sex with his parents and if tries to he is severely punished (in his book on Taboos he told us how primitive societies killed folks who engaged in incest).

       The child is forced to repress his desire to have sex with the parents of the opposite gender.  The force that is in his head urging him to repress such sexuality is called Superego.

        The superego is a social construct, social conscience or, more accurately, internalized social norms. Each of us carries in his head his society’s norms that he was socialized to and those norms (mores and laws) check his overt behavior.  Thus, in the normal child the superego checks his Id. The result is that conflict is created in his psyche as his natural inclination to have indiscriminate sex is stifled but he employs the various ego defense mechanisms (repression, suppression, denial, projection, displacement, rationalization, sublimation, reaction-formation, fantasy, avoidance, minimizing, shame, guilt, anger etc.) to defend against the wish

         Aggression is also suppressed, such as the wish to take what does not belong to one. According to Freudians, Nigerians have weak superegos; their aggression reigns wild so that they steal from every person and do not feel guilty from doing so; if properly socialized they would feel guilty and remorseful from the mere thought of taking what does not belong to them.

        Religions, such as Catholicism, make folks feel guilty should they do what society does not approve, so if religion is removed, as some Nigerian atheistic fools urge us to do, no superego would repress antisocial behaviors and the human polity would become chaotic and anarchic, as is already the case in Nigeria where law and order has broken down and folks steal from the government, and do so with complete impunity.

      To Freudians, in the process of growing up we are socialized to our society’s culture and its norms and we internalize what they say is appropriate and inappropriate behaviors; we fear alienating our society and its gate keepers for we know that if we do so they would punish us; if properly socialized we punish ourselves with guilt should we contemplate engaging in socially inappropriate behaviors; in psychoanalytic language, we are punished by the superego (our conscience prevents us from doing certain things we would like to do that we know society does not approve).

       The Ego is the third of the triadic intra-psyche forces in us. If you like, you can see the ego as sort of like a referee making sure that the child knows what society allows and what he wants and balances both. Since an adult needs sex, the ego tells him to have sex in socially approved contexts, such as with his girlfriend or in marriage; if elsewhere he is punished by the society in his head, that is, feels guilty from doing so.

        In a normal person the three forces of Id, Ego and Superego are balanced.  In certain persons, those that Freud called neurotics, the three forces are not balanced.

       As Freud sees it, the neurotic child, for example, despite socialization to the effect that he should avoid sex with parents of the opposite sex still hankers after that desire. In effect, he had not resolved what Freud called Oedipal complex (resolution of it requires the boy child to give up his desire for sex with his mother and the girl child to give up her desire for sex with her father;  and in the process identify with society’s norms and champion them hence are called normal persons). 

       Because the neurotic has not fully embraced social norms, and is in conflict with them he is living in anxiety (hence anxiety neurosis). Such persons then came to Freud and his disciples, psychoanalysts, to be analyzed. They lay on his famous couch and said whatever came to their minds (this is called free association) and presumably said that they wanted to have sex with their parents (that is, what is buried in their unconscious minds is brought up and catharsis takes place). In unearthing what was repressed and suppressed they are freed from the irrational things repression makes them do. 

       The analysant (patient) engages in transference relationship with the analyst; that is, sees him as he saw his father and projects unto him his unresolved issues with his father and the analyst analyses them and, hopefully, helps him to deal with them in an adult manner. 

      An analyzed neurotic does not become an angel; he merely becomes a more rational person. No human being is perfectly mentally healthy; even the most healthy person is still neurotic. Freud was analyzed but remained an obsessive-compulsive neurotic (what we would today call obsessive-compulsive personality disordered person).

      In his most pessimistic book, Civilization and its Discontents, Freud said that the conditions of living sucks and that the rational person who is aware of the human condition must be depressed. Depression is the state of mind of the rational person. But since depression is painful we deny it and project what depresses us to other people.

        In projection (an ego defense mechanism) one sees something in one, does not like it, deny it and attribute it to other persons and then attacks them as if they have such issues. For example, a white man wants to have sex with black women, knows that his society does not approve it so he denies that wish and projects it out; that is, he converts it to belief that all black men want to rape white women and hates them for having such wishes, even attacks them…they used to lynch black men who dared to look at white women longingly (there are many black men who have no desire for sex with white women; some, of course, do and there is nothing wrong with that unless it is done obsessive-compulsively, that is, neurotically, or from self-hate and wish to be white).

        In his analysis of a paranoid personality, a German Judge called Schreiber, Freud said that the man was a homosexual who denied his homosexuality and projected it to other persons. Thus, it came to pass that some psychoanalysts to the present believe that paranoid persons are latent homosexuals who deny their homosexuality and project it to other people.

       Please note that in none of these hypothesizing did Freud say that homosexuality is okay. In fact, he considered homosexuality a neurosis, not a psychosis.

        (The difference between neurosis and psychosis is vast…if you are reading this material there is no doubt that you are neurotic for it is neurotics who go to universities. The neurotic is a person who is aware of reality and knows that it sucks and does not like it and would like to change it but knows that he cannot change it and lives with it; he is Henry Thoreau’s man living a life of quiet desperation.  The psychotic, on the other hand, is aware that life sucks and does not like it and uses his imagination to invent a better self and life, and identifies with that false but ideal self and its world. He no longer lives as his real self or in the real world but as a false ideal self, that is, a deluded self. Thus, we say that he is no longer able to test reality; he is now living in his own world of fantasy.  The psychotic, such as schizophrenics, maniacs, deluded persons etc. are deluded and do hallucinate. We shall leave them out of this discourse, for only about two percent of the human population is psychotic. If you are psychotic, in lay language, insane, lunatic, mad, nuts, crazy etc. you cannot follow this paper, for your “voices” will not allow you to concentrate enough to follow its logical associations…it is a neurotic, that is, an educated person, that is most likely to read and follow the logic of this paper…we call the so-called normal person “normal-neurotic person”. There is no such person as a mentally healthy person; we all have mental disorders in some degrees, just as we all have some physical disorders; health is an ideal state that we, in degrees, approximate but are not.)

       In the psychoanalytic movement were folks like Freud followed by Alfred Adler, then Carl Jung, Otto Rank, Erich Fromm, Karen Horney, Harry Stack Sullivan etc. I could review what each of them said on the nature of neurosis and homosexuality but for the sake of time and space let me limit myself to what Alfred Adler and Karen Horney said about neurosis and homosexuality.

       To Adler, a neurotic is all human beings who feel inferior and reject that inferiority and compensate with desire for false superiority and power (see Adler, The Neurotic Character, 1911). According to this line of thinking, Adler said that lesbians felt inferior and rejected their inferiority and compensated with what he called masculine protest; that is, a lesbian wants to be like a man. A lesbian believes that she is inferior and sees men as having social power; she resents her social inferiority and wants to have male power to enable her restitute her inferiority complex.

       Lesbians, in effect, reject their female-hood and want to be like men. Men have sex with women so the lesbian trying to be like men wants to have sex with women; she thinks that in doing what men do, have sex with women, she is powerful, as powerful as men are supposed to be.

       Thus, these days the lesbian marries another woman and calls herself that woman’s husband (as men call their wives); the spouse is generally a passive woman that she lords it over; like men she provides for  her “wife” and the wife allows the “husband” to tell her what to do. The lesbian who acts as a male is called Dike, or Butch (the man who allows other men to hump him is called a Queen).

        If you know something about America’s street life, you probably would have seen women cruising the city streets and picking up women and having six with them; they have such women suck their vaginas and then wear strap-on dildoes and use them to stick into those other women’s vaginas and anuses.

         For our present purposes, those who invented the term neurosis, Freud and Adler, considered homosexuals neurotic. Homosexuality was considered a mental disorder until 1980 when the American Psychiatric Association was persuaded by the homosexual lobby to reclassify it as neutral. (Apparently, it now takes politics to decide what mental illness is; no wonder that Thomas Tzas in his “The Myth of Mental Illness” tells us that there is no such thing as mental disorder and R.D.Laing in his “Politics of Experience” tells us that the mentally ill are the real mentally healthy persons, are mystics!). Thus, the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual 111 said that homosexuality is only a mental disorder if it is ego-dystonic for the homosexual otherwise it is neutral. Thus, it came to pass that we now  no longer see homosexuals as mentally ill and no longer make efforts to make embrace heterosexual behavior (unless they want to do so… no amount of analysis or psychotherapy can make them change; they simply want to have sex with persons of their kind; the men want to stick their penises into other men’s anuses and in so doing generally contract germs: virus, bacteria, fungus and generally die from those germs…we all know about HIV and AIDs…what folks do not know is that in their later years these folks anuses are so stretched from being fucked that feces drip from them and they have to wear diapers…so much for defying natural processes.)

       Just imagine what would happen to homosexual men in third world countries where medical intervention is poor. By the time a man has had his anus fucked for ten years and is now dripping feces who is going to help him in poor Africa?  Since he would have contracted venereal diseases who is going to cure him in poor Africa? We have not even provided adequate medical interventions to innocent victims of diseases and we are now talking about helping those who brought their diseases to themselves by engaging in defiant sexuality! The anus is meant for defecation, not sex.

        Lesbians use their mouths to suck on other women’s vaginas; ordinarily, the vagina is full of fungi, especially yeast; the vagina is full of “creepy creatures” and lesbians suck them up and invariably contract diseases, such as Herpes of the mouth. These people are walking disease vectors.

        In my opinion, homosexuals suffer from the psychiatric disorder called opposition defiant disorder, ODD. It is found in some children; oppositional children defy adult authority and want to do their own things; some of them leave their homes and drop out of schools etc. and become street persons.

      Homosexuals are defying what Nature made (they will ask you: what is natural and who made it so and since to them God does not exist so God did not make heterosexuality normal). These folks are at war with nature and want to remake natural processes to suit their fancy; they are on ego power trip; they want to be superior to nature and nature’s God (hence are neurotic, ala Adler).

       Generally, homosexuals over value their bodies and are in love with their bodies and do not care for spiritual matters hence have aspects of narcissism. Like narcissists everywhere they have underlying depression. The narcissistic person uses seeking of social admiration and attention to mask his underlying self-hatred. Look beneath the mask of narcissism and you see a profoundly depressed person (those Nigerians running around seeking social attention, the “big men” masquerading with titles such as Dr. Professor chief thief are deep down depressed persons and we do not know it!)

       Karen Horney (see her seminal book, Neurosis and Human Growth) said that neurosis emanates when a child is not approved in what Carl Rogers (in his book, Client Centered Therapy) called unconditionally positive manner. When parents and guardians (Harry Stack Sullivan called them the child’s significant others) do not accept their children as they are and insist that they become perfect in behavior before they are accepted the children reject their real selves and posit idealized selves and strive to become those false ideal selves.

       The neurotic child, according to Horney, is a child who rejects his real self and wants to be an alternative ideal, perfect self that he believes his significant others would accept. He is now afraid to be himself and presents an ideal social persona to other people to accept. He feels anxious from the conflict between his real and his imaginary ideal self.

       In Abraham Maslow’s categories, the neurotic is trying to actualize his false ideal self and must fail; it is those who strive to actualize their real selves that succeed in whatever endeavor they engage in. Nigerians are mostly failed neurotics because they are trying to actualize their false ideal selves; for them to succeed they have to accept their real selves and try to actualize those; that is, live in reality not the fantasy world they live in. Imagine Nigeria, country where electricity cannot even be provided twenty four- seven, and the head of state, Obasanjo asks for his country to become a member of the UN Security Council, to be part of the club of big boys with nukes; I tell you what, Nigerians live in fantasy land where the fat tummied nouve rich thieves ruling it actually fancy that they are taken seriously by other people across the world. In reality they are seen as jokers, clowns.

       As Horney sees it, the cure for neurosis is for him to give up all desire to be ideal and perfect and accept who he knows himself to be, which like all people is imperfect.

        When you accept who you are, not who you think that you ought to be, not the you that your parents and society want you to be, you feel relaxed, peaceful and happy.

         (Most Nigerians want to be as their primary society wants them to be and in Horney’s terms are neurotic. Erich Fromm would say that most Nigerians are living in the womb of society and have not been given birth to what Carl Jung called individuation. Otto Rank would say that they are not yet welcome to the tragedy called human existence.)

       Our human lives are tragic. Why? We are born and will die and get eaten by worms. Yet, like the Greek tragic figure, Sisyphus, we keep rolling stones up hills knowing that they would roll right back down. (If you have not read Albert Camus Sisyphus please read it; and while at it, also read Jean Paul Sartre’s No Exit, also his Being and Nothingness.)

       Having browbeaten the mental health establishment to see them as normal, homosexuals turned around and now say that anyone who abhors their dreadful life style is homophobic (fear of homosexuals).  Okay, some people fear them. But since when is it not okay to fear evil persons?

         These folks not only want society to tolerate them but to approve their behaviors indeed, they want to force all of us, society, to teach their lifestyle as normal.

        The superintendent of New York City Public schools had the audacity to print gay lobby influenced text books that showed six year old first graders two women as parents, as mother and father! I tell you, these people are bent on converting every person to their satanic life style.

       Give them a foot and they take the whole nine yards! Mark my word; very soon they would have the American Congress and idiot presidents like Barack Obama pass laws asking all Americans to sing praise to their supposed blissful life style!

        (These people are narcissistic animals; they celebrate the human body rather than turn their gaze to God, as Jesus did, and in so doing became the Christ, the son of God; God is spirit and his children are spirit, not bodies as homosexuals think that they only are.)

       The mental health field is filled with lesbians and gay men so I regularly run into them. Years ago, as a young therapist, my office mate, Robert, was a gay guy. I did not know that he was gay until he invited me to his house and when I got there he introduced another young man to me as his lover!  I did not know what that meant but during the course of the evening I saw them making out, kissing, sitting on each other’s laps etc. I got the message. I was made literally sick and went to the bathroom and vomited. I found an excuse to leave their house of evil. 

       The next day at work I changed office space for I did not want him around me.  I am supposing that to him I am homophobic but from where I stand he is simply repulsive. 

      These people’s repulsiveness to me is not accounted for by their flippant saying that whoever does not like them have latent homosexuality that he repressed.

       Who do I know this to be the case? It is because I have been invited to have anal and or oral sex with women and could not go there. In my late teen and early adult years I was mostly around white folk and, as a matter of fact, my first sexual encounter was with a white woman.  As any man who has had sex with white women knows, some white women would literally insist that you stick your penis into their anus and suck their vaginas (they would give you reciprocal “blow jobs”). Each time such request was made of me I felt sick and ended that relationship. 

       These days many American high school girls, perhaps to avoid getting pregnant, have their boyfriends have oral and or anal sex with them (some say that it is a result of the homosexual influence that tells girls that it is okay to have their anuses humped by boys).

        Returning to the subject at hand, the point is that psychoanalysis considered homosexuality a neurosis. Ola Kassim is wrong in saying that those who oppose homosexuals are neurotic; he is perverting the employment of terminologies he does not understand.

       I have a word of caution for Ola Kassim and those like him who encourage homosexuality. If society approves this bestial life style, in a few years the devilish homosexuals would be calling for the legalization of sex between adult men and children. If he is in doubt let me inform him that they are already doing so. In California there is a group, North- American man-boy association; they argue that adult men should be allowed to have six with boys as young as age five! They say that such behavior was legitimate in ancient Greece and Rome and do not see why it is now prohibited (what they do not tell us is that such behavior weakened those empires and made them easily defeated by less developed but vigorous folk…as homosexuality is weakening the West thus making its fall inevitable…but they want to make more vigorous folks who could defeat them, Africans, become weak and unable to defeat and replace them hence they now encourage Africans to embrace this moribund lifestyle).

       Moreover, they would claim that since they were born that they have always wanted to have sex with children; that it is in their genes to rape children and thus no one should prevent them from doing so.

       Mark it down; the next stanza in this dreadful song we are exposed to is that homosexuals will soon tell us that it is unfair to prevent them from gratifying their “natural orientation to have sex with children”; they will ask us to go produce children and give them to pedophilic homosexuals to have sex with to satisfy the evil god that created them.

       Pedophiles will soon start telling us that they were born that way; that it is in their genes that they have sex with children and it is not their fault. This is the same argument that homosexuals employed to persuade heterosexual society to tolerate their evil life style.

        First, they make you feel sorry for them; they make you see them as victims of nature that made them do what they do; and having gotten you to have sympathy for them they then want to force their bestial life style on you! (I say all these for folks are tempted to have pity for them; I say do not pity them, ostracize them, better still, stamp them out.)

       Yes, in a few years pedophilia will be approved by the dying West and the likes of Jerry Sandusky (assistant football head coach at Penn State University)  would be given permission to be having sex with eight years old boys, as he did…the man would line eight year old boys against the wall and stick his freaking penis into their anuses and consider his evil behavior pleasurable, even as the boys were wreathing in pain (I agree with Adolf Hitler that these folks should be shot  on the spot; don’t even bother trying them or jailing them; they are freaks of nature and ought to be put out of their misery; what are they living for, anyway!).

      And if we are going to justify behavior on genetic grounds since anti-social personalities claim to have inherited their predisposition to steal why not tolerate them? It is not the murderer’s fault that he kills or the thief’s fault that he steals; so let us forgive them and permit them to murder whomever they want to murder or steal from whomever they want to steal from.

       Mankind has never used heredity to rationalize evil behaviors; we have always tried to ascertain what pro-social behavior is and encourage people to embrace them and punish anti-social behaviors; but the still pseudo-science of genetics (the same pseudo-science that tells us that black folks are inferior to white folks) now tells us that horrible sexuality is natural.

       No, homosexuals choose their behavior and ought to take the consequences of such choice: social ostracism.

DISCUSSION

      The psychoanalytic term, neurosis, is no longer in vogue. These days what used to be called the various neuroses are likely to be called personality disorders, such as paranoid, schizoid, Schizotypal, narcissistic, histrionic, borderline, anti-social, avoidant, obsessive- compulsive, dependent and passive aggressive. I have written about these in other writings and do not want to get into them here.*

     Those who study statistics tell us that for some reasons whereas most human beings tend to behave according to certain social norms that invariably a few deviate from the norm. For example, most people are relatively mentally healthy but about two percent are mentally ill; most people have normal intelligence but about two percent are mentally retarded (have IQ under 70) and two percent are mentally gifted (have IQ over 132).

       By the same token, whereas most people’s sexuality falls within the social norm (hence they are normal) two percent tend to be deviant (are overt or covert homosexual, pedophile and bestial). No one can explain this tendency for some people to deviate from the norm in a predictable percentage.

       The lesson to be drawn from statistics is that whereas most people are not homosexual that all things being constant a few persons are sexually deviant.

       As long as those deviants do not flaunt their depravity in our faces we can tolerate them as freaks of nature but if they seek to make their sickness the norm it is time to clamp them back into the closet, where they belong.

CONCLUSION

     I hope that Ola Kassim now understands what Neurosis means; however, I doubt that he is teachable; his mind appears made up and closed; he parades his ignorance as knowledge on Nigerian internet fora. I say to him: keep your homosexuality out of Africa, period.

       We, Africans, do not have to embrace a lifestyle just because the white man and his lackey, such as the idiot boy, Barack Obama, want us to do so. We, Africans, must define what constitutes appropriate behavior for us and not allow the sick men of Europe to define reality for us.

        The time for cultural imperialism where Europeans and their American cousins defined truth and imposed it on the rest of the world is over; from now on only us are entitled to define the truth for us.

      Barack Obama, Hillary Clinton and the other liberal clowns telling Africans to accept homosexuals should concentrate on figuring out ways to solve America’s failing economy and not meddle in Africa’s affairs; and if they do we must ignore them (Obama does not even know what to do to fix the American economy and is seen as a clown by most Americans and he has the audacity to tell Nigerians what to make lawful or not…let the fool try getting his on Republican controlled Congress pass one law he likes; so far he has zero record in that department).

*If you are interested in understanding yourself, please see my latest book, The Book of Self Knowledge; you can buy this 740 pages book from Amazon.com

Ozodiobi Osuji, PhD

December 9, 2011

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Subject: Kayode, you'll live long>>RE: No to Gay Culture in Nigeria, Keep Your Aids America! - Kayode

 Kayode:   You will live long! Interestingly, did you also know that A SINGLE ANIMAL DID NOT DIE in that Southeast Asia Tsunami! They went to high ground before it was even known that the Tsunami was on the way. The bloated corpses that floated on the trapped water and on creeks were those of humans! Of course animals are not homos.   Check this claim out, and you'll be amazed.   I therefore predict that because of the stout resistance Nigerians mustered to fend off foreign interlopers seeking to legalize and normalize this disgustingly sinful lifestyle of homosexuality, God will bless us Nigerians --whether he wants us in one nation or more than that. God will because, if Nigeria had succumbed to the high pressure tactics from North of the equator on this gay matter, the rest of Africa would have been  a vast Sodom and Gomorrah and, therefore, in deep shit! Kai!!!   The Bill banning homosexuality is now in the House of Reps. But the House should add more teeth to it by stipulating that any secondary/High School person in a boarding school, even if private, who is involved in homosexuality and caught doing that, will no longer be eligible to attend Secondary/High School anywhere in Nigeria.   It is imperative to tackle this gay problem from High Schools, otherwise the problem will linger. Earlier in one of my postings, I also suggested that the House should tack on prohibitions of child adoption by homosexuals in Nigeria. Thats because a child raised by homosexuals is at risk of practicing the same evil learned from his/her "parents".   But did also know that a lot of kids sent to boarding schools in the Uk return home as gay? This is why parents should be advised to keep their kids out of UK boarding schools.   Cheers.   Collins  Ezebuihe.
 

To: NigerianID@YahooGroups.comFrom: kayusee1@yahoo.comDate: Fri, 9 Dec 2011 12:24:53 -0800Subject: Re: NigerianID | No to Gay Culture in Nigeria, Keep Your Aids America! - Kayode  

Dr. Kassim, when did you become the spokesman for the World Gay Society? The fact is that all those doctors, including the ones you cited below are all suffering from psychosomatic disorder. Of course, they would try to justify their existence. They are the same people that create problems in the society, by trying to brand people who oppose their views and their ways of life as homophobic. 

Homosexuality is a disease that needs urgent psychiatric attention. When Homosexuals try to twist the order of things in the universe, the world get punished with unprecedented Tsunamis in places like Asia and New Orleans and Earthquakes in Haiti, Japan and China. Homosexuals are the one destroying the fabrics of the society. Our world is imploding right before our eyes and we don't know it. Our so called civilization is crumbling fast. When Churches that supposed to be the house of God, start justifying the gay culture and Pastors and Priests start molesting the young ones, when gay culture becomes an instrument of state's foreign policy, when abnormality becomes the norm of a society then, the world is in big trouble. It is high time we do something about it, before we human beings self-destruct.

Kudos to those in the Nigerian National Assembly that just passed the anti-gay law in Nigeria.

Kayode

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"Wright, Adams, and Bernat Homophobia ScaleHomophobia Questionnaire:http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/shows/assault/etc/quiz.html
also pasted below
Homophobia is a disease; homosexuality is not.Homophobia is a neurotic disorder with worldwide prevalence
---with the highest incidence in the least developed
and poorest countries. It is characterized by an irrational fear and aversion
to gays, lesbians and other non heterosexual human beings.Some of the most vocal and virulent homophobes are in fact
closet gays and lesbians.This is one of the reasons homosexuality is common amongst celibate
priests in the Catholic Church.Nigerian Homophobes should take the 
Homophobia Test on this link
and compare their scores against other sufferers of this neurotic disorder.:

http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/shows/assault/etc/quiz.html

   
 

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"Give thanks to the Lord for He is good; His mercy endures forever."

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Subject: Re: NigerianID | No to Gay Culture in Nigeria, Keep Your Aids America! - Kayode

Absolutely splendid!

OduduAbasi

DFW

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Subject: NigerianID | No to Gay Culture in Nigeria, Keep Your Aids America! - Kayode

 

Some Americans with HIV and AIDS visited Safari in East Africa in the early 80s, slept with African women, introduced AIDS which spread like wide fire to other African countries and blamed it on some African monkey. When a society does know when or where to stop in their quest for freedom, that society degenerates. That is the case with America. When you have some citizens sleeping with animals and men sleeping with other men and you call that freedom, then you have a big problem.

Some years ago in America, gay was like a taboo. Gay people kept it in their closets. Since the day Ellen Degenres came out of the closet on her show, America has never been the same again.

Today, you can no longer distinguish between a male and a female on the street. People have changed their genders: men look like women and women look like men, all in the name of liberty, freedom and experimentation. Children get confused with the same-sex marriage and they too think its "cool" to be gay; children commit suicide at the age of 6, 7, and 8 because they think they are gay and they could not understand why their peers who are not gay make fun of them. 

If America thinks the gay culture is fine in their society, that is their country. But you don't go around telling people in other cultures to practice what you preach and do, otherwise you won't give them aid. No, that's going beyond your own boundaries.

I'm just glad that there is still some sanity in Nigeria, despite all the problems that bedeviled the country.

Kayode

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Sent: Thursday, December 8, 2011 12:05 PM
Subject: Re: NIGERIANSnCANADA | No to Gay Culture in Nigeria, Keep Your Aids America! - Kayode

Well said my brother. Don't mind the most selfish people in the whole world. Look at what is happening in Syria they kept quite because there is no oil there. They should let us alone. We don't need their devilish encouragement period!!

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Subject: RE: NIGERIANSnCANADA | No to Gay Culture in Nigeria, Keep Your Aids America! - Kayode

               KAYODE PLEASE SAY THIS AS MUCH OFTEN AS YOU CAN. THE EVIL EMPIRE WILL BE VISITED BY THE GREAT POWER WHEN THE TIME COMES.

Chuma Anierobi.

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Sent: Thursday, December 8, 2011 12:17 PM
Subject: Re: NigerianID | No to Gay Culture in Nigeria, Keep Your Aids America! - Kayode

I love Nigeria. I love my country. Blessed be my homeland for ever.

Otitigbe.

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Subject: NigerianID | No to Gay Culture in Nigeria, Keep Your Aids America! - Kayode

 

America exported Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome (AIDS) to Africa in the early 80s, now they are exporting their Gay culture as an extension of their foreign policy. America needs to keep their degenerating society to themselves and should not tell the world how to live their lives. Nigeria has enough problems that could last generations, thanks to the kleptomaniac-politicians who rule the country. Nigeria does not need any foreign aids. Foreign aids are part of what make Nigeria lazy in the first place. If God wanted a Gay culture in the world, he would have created Adam and Adam or Eve and Eve.

Source: AFP

Nigeria's parliament pushed ahead with a bill on Wednesday that would harshly crack down on gay rights despite moves from US President Barack Obama's administration to counter such legislation.

The bill was introduced into Nigeria's House of Representatives on Wednesday after the Senate last week approved the measure that would outlaw gay marriage and ban public displays of affection between homosexual couples.

Gay organisations would also be made illegal, leading some to raise concerns over whether funding channeled through non-governmental organisations in Nigeria for AIDS treatment would be put in jeopardy.

A spokesman for the House of Representatives and a cabinet minister in Africa's most populous nation and largest oil producer were defiant in the face of Western criticism over the measure.

"We have a culture. We have religious beliefs and we have a tradition. We are black people. We are not white," said Zakari Mohammed, who is also a lawmaker.

He said same-sex marriage "is alien to our culture and we can never give it a chance. So if (Western nations) will hold their aid to us, to hell with them."

Information Minister Labaran Maku said "we reserve the right to make our laws without apologies to other countries."

On Tuesday, the United States put the fight against gay and lesbian discrimination at the heart of its foreign policy, but stopped short of warning transgressor nations they could be stripped of US aid.

Obama ordered all government agencies that play an active foreign policy role to take steps to encourage foreign nations to put a premium on gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender rights.

British Prime Minister David Cameron has already warned that his country will consider withholding aid from countries that do not recognise gay rights.

The bill passed by the senate would make same-sex marriages punishable by up to 14 years for the couple and 10 for anyone abetting such unions.

It also sets out a 10-year sentence for "any person who ... directly or indirectly makes public show of same-sex amorous relationships".

No debate took place during the introduction of the bill in the House of Representatives on Wednesday and a date has not yet been set for it.

Mohammed vowed lawmakers would proscribe even tougher penalties than those proposed so far. He said "to hell with the super powers if they are for gay marriages."

Maku told reporters after a routine weekly cabinet meeting on Wednesday that foreign nations had the right to comment on any Nigerian laws they were unhappy with.

"We live in a democracy, we live in a free country, we live in an independent country," he said, adding "some of the things that are considered fundamental rights abroad ... can be very offensive to African culture."

The house has to vote in favour of the bill before President Goodluck Jonathan ascents to or vetoes the legislation.

Senate President David Mark said last week that if any country was unwilling to "give us aid or assistance just because we want to hold on to our values, that country can keep her aid and assistance."

It was unclear why lawmakers decided a ban was necessary, with gay marriage not known to be prevalent in Nigeria and homosexuals already harshly discriminated against.

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Ozodi Osuji Ph.D

Ozodi Thomas Osuji is from Imo State, Nigeria. He obtained his PhD from UCLA. He taught at a couple of Universities and decided to go back to school and study psychology. Thereafter, he worked in the mental health field and was the Executive Director of two mental health agencies. He subsequently left the mental health environment with the goal of being less influenced by others perspectives, so as to be able to think for himself and synthesize Western, Asian and African perspectives on phenomena. Dr Osuji’s goal is to provide us with a unique perspective, one that is not strictly Western or African but a synthesis of both. Dr Osuji teaches, writes and consults on leadership, management, politics, psychology and religions. Dr Osuji is married and has three children; he lives at Anchorage, Alaska, USA.

He can be reached at: ozodiosuji@gmail.com (907) 310-8176